Row by Row
It’s a wonderful thing about mothers, sometimes they teach you how to do something… and then they teach something infinitely even more important by their example.
Yesterday I spent the day with my Mom working on a quilt. We almost finished my quilt and I love sewing and learning from her.
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When I arrived in the morning, she said she wanted me to see the new quilt she was working on for her bed. “That new quilt you just started?” I asked. Yes.
The quilt was draped over her bed. It is a king sized quilt with many, many little stars. So many stars, in fact, that she she thinks she will use 5 yards of the lovely textured Japanese fabric to make them all. For most of the rest of the quilt she is using scraps.
It is taking shape into an absolutely beautiful quilt.
What surprised me however, was how many rows extended down her bed. It was more than 1/3 finished.
Then I asked my mom how in the world she had finished so much of the quilt in such a short time… despite being really busy.
She said I just take it row by row. My goal is one row a day.
Last night as I lay in bed, I thought about that.
I thought about how overwhelmed I have felt the last week with some of the things going on in my life.
I realized that to accomplish a large and overwhelming task, I need to focus on small daily pieces- mini goals.
By her example, my mom taught me just what I needed to hear yesterday. Take it row by row.
That quilt is beautiful :)
What a beautiful picture illustration- moms are the best (and so are daughters who are wise enough to learn from them)!
Those words of advice made me cry this morning. I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed lately and that’s what I needed to hear too. Thanks for Moms who are constant reminders of what is important.
I love the quilt! I think your mom is very wise. I am off to tackle my day row by row!
That is so true…what a gift to have a mom who shares wisdom with you like that! I try to remember that, too….I can’t sew a whole dress today in one sitting, but I *can* sew one seam while the pasta boils.
That’s wonderful advice- and holy cow! the quilt is amazing!
I love that line. Your Mom has taught you so many valuable (and useful) lessons!
Lovely lesson, and a lovely quilt.
Can you give us a frame of reference on the quilt, how big is the square that forms the star?
Reading row by row reminded me of a children’s song. I aways sing it when I have some overwhelming task I need to accomplish. ” Inch by Inch, row by row, going to make my garden grow.” Keep inching away at something and it will get done.
I keep hearing this lesson and forgetting. I think I better pay attention! Thanks.
Thanks so much for sharing. I need to make similar goals and do things little by little, but rarely remember and usually feel overwhelmed.
beautiful!!! love the scraps!
My momma’s been in Heaven for over 12 years now.
I really needed the momma advice that you shared today.
Thank you from my heart.
Such important advice~I needed to read this today :)
Calli, I love your mom! She is a great lady. So sorry I missed you when you came into AQ earlier this week to buy some great civil war fabrics. It is always so fun to see you! Sharon
Hi – I was wondering if you would share the name and pattern of this stars quilt. I love it!!! I have alot of civil war ‘pieces’ that I would like to use and this would be the perfect pattern. It’s beautiful by the way …
Thank you! Donna
Hi Donna, My mom didn’t have a pattern. As a matter of fact, I will be writing a pattern for her for the retreat class she is teaching. It should be done in the next few weeks or month. If you’d like I could email you when it’s ready. cheers, Calli